It's taken me a while to get the seats in my 2010 JSW setup comfortably as well. Now that they're dialed in, though, they're great. I ended up using all the adjustments and it took some fiddling. The thing that took me the longest to deal with was that the most comfortable seat position is more upright than I was used to.
One thing that surprised me: I initially set the seat height, then tried to get the tilt/telescope to work with it. I ended up modifying one, then the other several times. Had I not tried adjusting them in concert with each other, I don't think I would have found a comfortable seating position.
-Jon
2010 JSW TDI DSG