Good stuff!This should also apply to the VW Jetta TDI. A Ross tech VCDS cable and software is required. Long story short, adjust channel 13 in the CECM adaptation. While you're in there you can also set it to all doors open with one press of the unlock button or unlock the doors when you pull the key out of the ignition.
Here is the full article and screenshots:
http://www.myturbodiesel.com/1000q/a6/change-number-blinks-turn-signal-vw.htm