Yes, there are a few tables comparing them. It sounds like you want the Audi and there are higher end options on the Audi that you can't get on the VWs. The Golf is competitive, even if money was no object. I prefer a Golf over a Jetta since they're very similar...except the Golf gets the mk6 improvements.
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