Make sure the anti shudder valve is open, if your car has one. It's vacuum controlled and looks like a throttle on the intake manifold. The solenoid could be telling it to close. Or maybe it's sticking closed. Check all the grounds. Due to the intermittent nature and symptoms, it's not the timing belt.
It's not the glow plugs but you say the glow plug light is pulsing on and off while you try to start it? If so, that indicates a relay 109 problem. But since you've already checked it and replaced it, it sounds like there is some other problem that is causing a power fault to the ECU. Check the battery cables and other wiring for corrosion. Maybe the ecu is sitting in a pool of water?
If you want to trace the wiring diagram, get the factory service manual. There were year to year changes and I would not be surprised if your seat was also different.
Maybe someone else can chime in who had a similar problem but it sounds like an electrical problem related to ECU power if the glow plug and fuel pump are pulsing on and off. Remember that the fuel pump is electronically controlled, there is more than just 12v and ground to run it. It's possible that the ecu is bad but this is rare.
It's not the glow plugs but you say the glow plug light is pulsing on and off while you try to start it? If so, that indicates a relay 109 problem. But since you've already checked it and replaced it, it sounds like there is some other problem that is causing a power fault to the ECU. Check the battery cables and other wiring for corrosion. Maybe the ecu is sitting in a pool of water?
If you want to trace the wiring diagram, get the factory service manual. There were year to year changes and I would not be surprised if your seat was also different.
Maybe someone else can chime in who had a similar problem but it sounds like an electrical problem related to ECU power if the glow plug and fuel pump are pulsing on and off. Remember that the fuel pump is electronically controlled, there is more than just 12v and ground to run it. It's possible that the ecu is bad but this is rare.