Yeah, the US cars get fancy PODS Airbag systems but small items like mirror down in reverse, interior monitoring and RLS are not available unless you would get a Tiguan SEL and even those aren't really fully "loaded". The Auto HL switch alone won't do it, believe me I attempted everything in the past, but I just picked up a RLS and the proper connectors so this will be installed shortly.
Normally I'd take your factory coding, tweak it and paste the end results to the forum. The VAS scan tool however is less than pleasant to work with in comparison to VCDS and you have to tweak bits independently. You cannot copy and paste a 30 Byte string (60 characters) into the "new coding" spot.
Do you know anyone with a Micro-CAN or HEX-USB+CAN in the local area?